Izingosi ezinhle kakhulu zokuqomisana ezingaphezu kuka-50

Amaphephandaba amaningi endawo ayenabo abantu abaku-inthanethi maphakathi nawo-1990 kodwa athengwe yilawa masayithi amakhulu okuqomisana. Kusukela kwamanye amazwana kukhombisa ngempela indlela ngokuphelelwa yithemba ukuphola amasayithi kukhona imali ukuthi ngisho ukukhangisa ezigabeni zokuphawula. Unethuba elingcono kakhulu lokuya emicimbini yendawo futhi cishe uzochitha imali engaphansi kwalokho obungayichitha kusayithi lokuqomisana eliku-inthanethi.

Ezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza ziveze ukuthi zingase zisondele ku-Facebook. Isibonelo, iBumble, eyasungulwa yisikhulu sakwa-Tinder, uthe sebevele bexhumene ne-Facebook mayelana nendlela yokusebenzisana. Futhi, "Into eyodwa wonke umuntu obonakala evumelana ngayo ukuthi i-Facebook yokugunyaza ngempumelelo ukuphola online kuzoba umcimbi omkhulu wokuqinisekisa umkhakha," kusho umhlaziyi we-inthanethi uJefferies uBrent Thill. Ngokuka-Amanda Bradford, isikhulu esiphezulu se-The League, uhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana olusezingeni eliphezulu, “I-Facebook iqinisekisa ukuthi ukuphola kuyimboni yobuchwepheshe obuphezulu enezinkinga ezithakazelisa ngempela nezinzima ukuzixazulula. Noma kunjalo, i-Facebook ingase ibhekane nezithiyo ezithile ekwakheni ukuhlukana okwanele phakathi kwesevisi yokuphola kanye nenethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu eyifa; abanye abasebenzisi bangahle bangathandi ukuba nayo yomibili imisebenzi ibe bukhoma kuhlelo lokusebenza olulodwa.

Ngemva kokumnika isikhathi sokubhekana nokushona kwekati lakhe, wenza izinhlelo zokuphinde alibone futhi wajabula kakhulu. Uphinde wahoxisa usuku ngomzuzu wokugcina ngoba ethi ugogo wakhe ushonile. Nakuba lokhu kwakubonakala kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuba kube yiqiniso, kwamnikeza inzuzo yokungabaza ukuthi wayekhuluma iqiniso. Ukwengeza, uma othile ekunikeza uhlu lokuhlola ngokushesha lazo zonke izinto azifunayo kuzakwethu wesikhathi esizayo, lokhu kungase kube ifulegi elibomvu lokuziphatha okuthile okulawulayo. Kuyinto eyodwa uma beveza okungaxoxiswana nabo kodwa kungenye into ngokuphelele uma bebala izici ezidingekayo. Uma uzwa sengathi othile usevele uzama ukushintsha izinto ngawe ukuze zihambisane nezidingo zakhe, lokho akulungile. Ukuthi othile uyiqala kanjani ingxoxo nawe kuzosho okuningi mayelana nendlela akubuka ngayo njengomuntu nokuthi angakuphatha kanjani njengomlingani wakho.

Abasebenzisi abathandana ku-inthanethi kungenzeka ukuthi bachaze ulwazi lwabo jikelele ngokusebenzisa amasayithi okuqomisana noma izinhlelo zokusebenza ngamatemu amahle, hhayi amabi. Abanye abantu baseMelika abangu-57% abake basebenzisa isayithi lokuqomisana noma uhlelo lokusebenza bathi okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo siqu ngalezi zinkundla kube kuhle kakhulu noma ngandlela thize. Noma kunjalo, abantu abangaba bane kwabayishumi ku-inthanethi (42%) bachaza ulwazi lwabo lomuntu siqu namasayithi okuphola noma izinhlelo zokusebenza okungenani njengokungalungile ngandlela-thile. Ngokujabulisayo, kukhona ezinye izinkonzo zokuthandana ezibheke ukunqoba ize. Isibonelo, i-Hinge ifanisa abantu ngokusekelwe kubuntu kanye nezintandokazi futhi ikuvumela ukuthi udale iphrofayela ethakazelisayo neyindilinga ukuze udonse abantu. Enye yezingosi zokuphola ezimbalwa eziklanyelwe izindaba, i-Ashley Madison ixhuma abasebenzisi ukuze bahlangane ngobuhlakani.

Ngokuyisisekelo konke umfana onjengawe okufanele ukwenze ukuthi ubambe ukunaka kwakhe ngaso leso sikhathi ngendlela ekhumbulekayo ngayo yomibili iphrofayela yakho nemiyalezo yakho, bese uchitha isikhathi esincane kakhulu umkholisa ukuthi ahlangane nawe mathupha. Kulabo abamanqikanqika ukungena ku-inthanethi ukuphola emhlabeni ngenxa yezizathu ezihlobene nokuphepha noma ukungakhululeki engxoxweni lulls, Double ihlose ukususa ingcindezi nge Amadethi Double ngokuphambene umuntu-on-one.

Yisho izinto ezibaluleke ngempela kuwe futhi uzenze ngakho. U-Connor uphendule umzamo wenkulumo encane waba inkulumo-ze mayelana "nezifebe ezimba igolide," futhi uhlelo lokusebenza lokuthandana lwalungenayo. Matt- Kodwa kuthiwani lapho uthi uzohlangana nami empilweni futhi sizolahlekelwa ubuntombi bethu ndawonye. I-One Love ifundisa abantu abasha ngobudlelwano obunempilo nobungenampilo, ibanikeze amandla okuhlonza nokugwema ukuhlukunyezwa futhi bafunde ukuthanda kangcono. Uma uya endaweni enikeza uphuzo oludakayo, abathengisi abaningi basebenzisa amakhodi ayimfihlo ukusiza amakhasimende ukuthi asayine, ngasese, lapho edinga usizo uma ehlukunyezwa noma ezizwa engaphephile ngedethi embi.

Ngaphandle kwemfuneko yezezimali, amasayithi amahhala azoheha ingxenye enkulu yabantu abangazibophezele ngempela ekutholeni ubudlelwano bangempela. Ubulungu uthola izici ezengeziwe njengokukwazi ukuthumela imilayezo eyengeziwe nokwamukela izaphulelo zomcimbi.