Ngingawatholaphi amandla okuqhubeka nezifundo zami zomculo?

Mngani Othandekayo! Izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa empilweni yakho kuzofika isikhathi lapho ufuna ukuyeka yonke into futhi uhlehle. Ngelinye ilanga lokhu kuzokwenzeka ngesifiso sokuqhubeka nokufunda umculo. Yini engenziwa esimweni esinjalo?

Kungani intshiseko yokuqala iphela?

Kunesikhathi lapho wawubheke ngabomvu ithuba lokuthatha insimbi undize uye ezifundweni sengathi ngamaphiko, ujabulela impumelelo yakho. Futhi kungazelelwe okuthile kwashintsha, okwakuke kwaba lula kwaba umkhuba, futhi isidingo sokubeka isikhathi samakilasi engeziwe saba umsebenzi ongathandeki owawufuna ukuwuqeda.

Khumbula ukuthi awuwedwa emizweni yakho. Ngisho nabaculi abanohlonze badlule kulokhu. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, thembeka kuwe ngokwakho. Ziphendulele: ingabe inkinga ngomculo? Noma uthisha? Ezimweni eziningi lokhu akunjalo. Iphuzu liwukuthi ufuna ukudlala kakhulu nabangani futhi nijabule, futhi awufuni ukusebenza. Futhi ukudlala umculo kunciphisa kakhulu isikhathi sakho samahhala.

Kungenzeka ukunqoba ukunganaki!

Kulesi simo, ungathola usizo okungenani emithonjeni emithathu: yenza okuthile ngokwakho, cela usizo kubazali bakho, futhi ukhulume nothisha wakho.

Uma, ngemva kokuhlaziya isimo sakho, wabona ukuthi, empeleni, isitha sakho esikhulu siyisithukuthezi, bhekana naso ngosizo lomcabango wakho! Ukhathele ukushaya okhiye? Ziguqule zibe iphaneli yokulawula umkhumbi-mkhathi oyinkimbinkimbi. Futhi vumela lonke iphutha lifane nokushayisana nesibhakabhaka esincane. Noma zibekele amazinga acatshangelwayo, njengakugeyimu yakho oyithandayo. Ukundiza komcabango wakho akukhawulelwe lapha.

Futhi elinye ithiphu elincane. Ungakuhlehli ukufunda kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina. Isilingo: zama isonto lonke ukuze uqale wenze izinto ezidingekayo (izifundo, izifundo zomculo), bese uzivuza kuphela ngokubuka ifilimu ethokozisayo noma umdlalo osulindelwe isikhathi eside. Impela awusenawo umdlandla ngalo mbono. Nokho, kuyasebenza ngempela! Uzoqaphela ukuthi ngalolu hlobo lokuhlela uzoba nesikhathi esengeziwe sezindaba zomuntu siqu.

Yenza abazali bahlanganyele

Akufanele ulwe nabazali bakho ukuze uthole isikhathi samahhala. Udlale kangcono nabo eqenjini elilodwa! Batshele ngemizwa yakho ngokukhululekile. Mhlawumbe bazokusiza uhlele usuku lwakho kangcono noma bakukhulule emithwalweni ethile yasekhaya okwesikhashana. Ngisho nezikhumbuzo ezivela kubo mayelana nemigomo yakho zingenza umsebenzi omuhle. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uzigcine ungaphakathi kwemikhawulo ebekiwe.

Shintsha indlela obheka ngayo uthisha wakho

Esikhundleni sokubheka uthisha wakho womculo njengesicefe ohlale efuna okuthile kuwe, mbheke njengomqeqeshi onolwazi ongaholela ekunqobeni. Futhi lokhu akuseyona nje iphupho lakho, kodwa isimo sangempela sezindaba.

Ukuholela kuphi? Okokuqala, ukunqoba phezu kwakho. Ufunda ukuba namandla futhi ungayeki lapho ubhekene nezithiyo. Kumanje uzuza into iningi lontanga yakho engakayitholi. Ufunda ukuba inkosi yempilo yakho. Futhi kuwufanele ukuphusha ubuvila bakho kancane.