Izindlela eziyishumi zokukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi iqhubeke ifunda umdlalo

Kumele sazi ukuthi wonke umfundi unesikhathi lapho engafuni ukuzilolonga. Lokhu kusebenza kuwo wonke umuntu, ngaphandle kokukhetha, kokubili labo abahlale benesithakazelo ngokuzivocavoca kwabo nalabo abahlala phansi nensimbi ngaphandle komdlandla omkhulu. Izikhathi ezinjalo azidluliswa nje izingane kuphela kodwa nabadala. Kungaba nezizathu eziningi zalokhu, kodwa imbangela evame kakhulu ukukhathala okusobala. Uma, ake sithi, ingane cishe iminyaka emi-3 noma engu-4 izivivinya njalo nsuku zonke, ithi, amahora amabili ngosuku, inelungelo lokuzizwa ekhathele futhi enesizungu ngalokho akwenzayo nsuku zonke.

Kufanele ucabangele ukuthi ukuvivinya umzimba okufana nezikali, iziqephu, ama-etudes noma ukuvivinya umzimba akuyona into emnandi kakhulu. Kuhlale kujabulisa kakhulu ukudlala esikwaziyo nesikuthandayo kunomsebenzi wethu futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, asikuthandi ngempela. Esimeni esinjalo, ikhefu lezinsuku ezimbalwa ngokuvamile lanele ukuze yonke into ibuyele esigqi sayo sangaphambili. Kuba kubi kakhulu uma ingane iphelelwa wumdlandla emculweni ngokwawo. Lokhu kungase kube ngenxa yokuthi kuze kube manje kwakuqhutshwa kuphela ngoba umama noma ubaba wayefuna ingane yabo ibe umculi, futhi manje, lapho isikhulile, yabonisa futhi yasibonisa umbono wakhe. Kulokhu, le ndaba inzima kakhulu ukudlula. Akekho ongakwazi ukwenza umculo kunoma ubani, kufanele uphume ekuzibophezeleni nasekuthakaseleni kwengane. Ukudlala insimbi, okokuqala, kufanele kulethe injabulo nentokozo enganeni. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho singathembela empumelelweni ephelele nasekugcwalisekeni kwezifiso zethu nezengane yethu. Nokho, singakwazi ngandlela thize ukuhlanganisa futhi sikhuthaze izingane zethu ukuba zizivocavoce. Manje sizoxoxa ngezindlela eziyi-10 zokwenza ingane yethu ifune ukuzivocavoca futhi.

1. Ukushintsha repertoire Ngokuvamile ukudangala kwengane ekuzilolongeni kubangelwa ukukhathala ngempahla, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuyihlukanisa futhi ukuyishintsha ngezikhathi ezithile. Ngokuvamile kufanele udedele izingcezu zasendulo ezibucayi noma ama-etudes ahloselwe kuphela ukulolonga indlela, futhi uphakamise okuthile okulula nokujabulisayo endlebeni.

2. Iya ekhonsathini yomdlali wopiyano onekhono Lena enye yezindlela ezingcono zokugqugquzela ingane yakho ukuthi ibhukule. Ayinawo nje umphumela omuhle enganeni, kodwa nakubantu abadala. Ukulalela umdlali wopiyano onekhono, ukubheka amasu akhe kanye nencazelo yakhe kungaba yisikhuthazo esihle sokuzibandakanya okukhulu futhi kushukumise isifiso somntwana sokufinyelela izinga eliphezulu.

3. Ukuvakashelwa umngane womculi ekhaya Yebo, akuthina sonke esinomculi omuhle phakathi kwabangane babo. Nokho, uma lokhu kunjalo, khona-ke sinenhlanhla futhi singayisebenzisa ngendlela enekhono. Ukuvakasha komuntu siqu komfana onjalo, ozodlala into enhle enganeni, abonise amaqhinga asebenzayo, angasiza kakhulu ekumkhuthazeni ukuba asebenzise umzimba.

4. Sizama ukuzuza okuthile ngokwethu Isixazululo esithokozisayo kungaba yindlela engiyibize ngokuthi “umlingi kathisha”. Kuhlanganisa nokuthi sihlala phansi silalele insimbi ngokwethu futhi sizame ukudlala ngomunwe owodwa lokho ingane yethu engakwazi ukuyidlala kahle. Yebo, akusisebenzeli ngoba singabantu abavamile, ngakho-ke sinephutha, sengeza okuthile okuvela kithi futhi ngokuvamile kuzwakala kabi. Khona-ke, njengomthetho, i-90% yezingane zethu izofika igijima futhi ithi lokhu akuyona indlela okufanele kube ngayo, siyabuza, kanjani? Umntwana uzizwa ebalulekile ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi iqiniso lokuthi angasisiza futhi abonise amakhono akhe lakha isikhundla sakhe esivelele. Usikhombisa indlela umsebenzi okufanele wenziwe ngayo. Ezimweni eziningi, uma esehlale phansi ensimbini, uzohamba nakho konke okukhona manje.

5. Ukuzibandakanya ngokugcwele emfundweni yengane yethu Kufanele sihlanganyele ngenkuthalo emfundweni yakhe. Khuluma naye ngezinto amatasa ngazo njengamanje, buza ukuthi useke wahlangana yini nomqambi omusha ongakadlalwa, yiliphi ibanga azilolongayo manje, njll.

6. Mncome umntanakho Yebo, singakwenzi ihaba, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba siyazise imizamo yengane yethu futhi siyibonise ngendlela efanele. Uma ingane yethu iqhuba ucezu olunikeziwe amasonto ambalwa futhi ngisho noma yonke into iqala ukuzwakala naphezu kwamaphutha amancane, masidumise ingane yethu. Ake simtshele ukuthi manje usepholile ngempela ngalesi siqeshana. Bayozizwa baziswa futhi kuzobakhuthaza ukuba benze imizamo emikhulu nakakhulu futhi baqede amaphutha angenzeka.

7. Ukuxhumana njalo nothisha Lena enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu okufanele sizinakekele njengomzali. Hlala uthintana nothisha wengane yethu. Khuluma naye ngobunzima ingane yethu enabo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi uphakamise umbono ngokushintsha kwe-repertoire.

8. Amathuba emidlalo Ugqozi olukhulu futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, ugqozi oluvuselelayo ithemba lokucula ezikoleni zesikole, ukubamba iqhaza emiqhudelwaneni, noma ukucula efestiveli, noma ngisho umculo womndeni, isb ukucula. Konke lokhu kusho ukuthi lapho ingane ifuna ukwenza konke okusemandleni ayo, ichitha isikhathi esiningi izivocavoca futhi ihileleka kakhulu.

9. Ukudlala eqenjini Ukudlala eqenjini nabanye abantu abadlala ezinye izinsimbi kumnandi kakhulu. Njengomthetho, izingane zithanda imisebenzi yeqembu, eyaziwa nangokuthi izigaba, ngaphezu kwezifundo zomuntu ngamunye. Ukuba sebhendini, ukupholisha nokulungisa ucezu ndawonye kumnandi kakhulu eqenjini kunoyedwa.

10. Ukulalela umculo Iciko lethu elincane kufanele libe nomtapo wolwazi oqedwe kahle onezingcezu ezinhle kakhulu ezidlalwa abadlali bopiyano abahamba phambili. Ukuxhumana njalo nomculo, ngisho nokuwulalela kancane ngenkathi wenza umsebenzi wesikole, kuthinta ukungazi lutho.

Ayikho indlela ephelele futhi ngisho nalezo ezibonakala zizinhle kakhulu azilethi ngaso sonke isikhathi umphumela esiwufunayo, kodwa ngokungangabazeki akufanele siyeke, ngoba uma ingane yethu inethalente nokuthambekela kokudlala upiyano noma enye insimbi, akumelwe siyilahlekele. Thina njengabazali sizazi kakhulu izingane zethu futhi uma kunesimo esibucayi asizame ukwakha ezethu izindlela zokukhuthaza ingane ukuthi iqhubeke nemfundo yomculo. Masenze konke okusemandleni ukuthi ingane ihlale ensimbini ngenjabulo, futhi uma ihluleka, kuba nzima, ekugcineni, akumele sonke sibe abaculi.