Ushintsho kumfundi womculo. Yini abazali okufanele bayenze uma ingane yabo yenqaba ukuqhubeka nesikole somculo?

Ngokushesha noma kamuva, cishe wonke umculi osemusha uyafika lapho esefuna ukuyeka izifundo zakhe. Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka eminyakeni engu-4-5 yokufunda, lapho uhlelo luba nzima kakhulu, izidingo ziphakeme, futhi ukukhathala okuqoqwe kukhulu.

Ziningi izici ezinomthelela kulokhu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umntwana okhulayo unenkululeko eyengeziwe. Usengakwazi kakade ukuphatha isikhathi sakhe ngokuzimela futhi ahlanganyele nabangane isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uhla lwezithakazelo zakhe luyanda.

Kubonakala sengathi iminyango yamathuba amangalisayo ekugcineni iyamvulela. Futhi lapha isidingo sokuya ezifundweni zomculo nokuzijwayeza njalo ekhaya siqala ukudlala indima ecasulayo ye-leash emfushane.

Susa namaketanga!

Kuyacaca ukuthi ngesinye isikhathi ingane izoba nombono okhaliphile - "Kumelwe silahle konke!" Ukholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi lesi sinyathelo sizomsindisa ochungechungeni lwezinkinga.

Yilapho-ke ukuvinjezelwa kwabazali okude nokucatshangelwayo kuqala. Noma yini ingasetshenziswa: ukuphindaphinda okuyisidina kokukhathala okumangalisayo, ama-hysterics agcwele, ukwenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Okuningi kuyoxhomeka esimweni somntwana wakho.

Uyakwazi ngisho nokuqala ingxoxo yabantu abadala ngokuphelele futhi ehlelekile, lapho uzonikeza khona ubufakazi obuningi bokuthi imfundo yomculo ngeke ibe wusizo kuye ekuphileni, futhi, ngenxa yalokho, akukho sizathu sokuchitha isikhathi kuso.

Ungasabela kanjani kusiphithiphithi?

Khona-ke, yini abazali abanothando nabakhathalelayo okufanele bayenze? Okokuqala, beka eceleni yonke imizwa futhi uhlole ngokucophelela isimo. Phela, kungaba nezizathu eziningi zokuziphatha okunjalo kwengane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kumele zixazululwe ngendlela ehlukile.

Ungawudluliseli umthwalo wemfanelo kuthisha, isihlobo, umakhelwane noma ingane uqobo. Khumbula, akekho owazi ingane yakho kangcono kunawe. Futhi akekho ozomnakekela kangcono kunawe.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umculi wakho osemusha uneminyaka emingaki, khuluma naye njengokungathi ungumuntu ovuthiwe. Lokhu akusho nhlobo ingxoxo phakathi kwabalinganayo nabalinganayo. Kwenze kucace ukuthi isinqumo sokugcina ngendaba ngesakho. Nokho, ingane kumelwe ibe nomuzwa wokuthi umbono wayo uyacatshangelwa ngempela. Le nqubo elula izokuvumela ukuba ubonise inhlonipho ngombono wendodana noma indodakazi yakho, okuyinto, futhi, ezingeni elingokwengqondo, izokwenza ukuba uphathe igunya lakho ngenhlonipho enkulu.

Izinkulumo

1. Lalela. Ungaphazamisi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Ngisho noma ubona ukuthi izingxabano zengane azinangqondo futhi ziyiphutha, lalela. Khumbula ukuthi ufinyelela iziphetho zakho kusukela ekuphakameni kweminyaka eminingi yokuhlangenwe nakho, futhi ama-horizons wengane mayelana nalokhu asalinganiselwe.
2. Buza imibuzo. Esikhundleni sokusika: “Usemncane futhi awuqondi lutho!” buza: “Kungani ucabanga kanjalo?”
3. Dweba izimo ezehlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi. Zama ukukwenza ngendlela eyakhayo. “Cabanga nje ukuthi abangani bakho bazokubuka kanjani lapho ephathini ungakwazi ukuhlala phansi epiyano (i-synthesizer, isiginci, umtshingo…) futhi udlale ingoma emnandi?” “Ingabe uzozisola ngokuchitha isikhathi nomzamo ongaka kukho bese uyayeka?”
4. Mxwayise ngokuthi kuzomele abhekane nemiphumela yezinqumo zakhe. “Ubufuna ngempela ukwenza umculo. Manje usukhathele yikho. Hhayi-ke, lesi yisinqumo sakho. Kodwa muva nje ucele ukukuthengela ibhayisikili (ithebhulethi, ifoni…). Ngicela uqonde ukuthi angeke ngikwazi ukuthatha lezi zicelo ngokungathi sína njengakuqala. Sizosebenzisa imali eningi, futhi ngemva kwamaviki ambalwa ungase uzithole unesizungu ngokuthenga. Kungcono uthole ikhabethe elisha lekamelo lakho.”
5. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uqinisekise ingane yakho ngothando lwakho. Iqiniso lokuthi uyaziqhenya kakhulu ngaye futhi uyakwazisa impumelelo yakhe. Mtshele ukuthi uyakuqonda ukuthi kunzima kangakanani kuye futhi uyayiqaphela imizamo ayenzayo. Mchazele ukuthi uma ezinqoba manje, kuzoba lula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Futhi omunye umcabango obalulekile kubazali - umbuzo oyinhloko kulesi simo akukhona ukuthi ngabe ingane izoqhubeka nezifundo zayo noma cha, kodwa lokho okuhlelayo empilweni. Ingabe uzovuma ngaphansi kwengcindezi encane? Noma ingabe uzofunda ukuxazulula ubunzima obuvelayo futhi afinyelele umgomo oyifunayo? Esikhathini esizayo, lokhu kungasho lukhulu - faka isehlukaniso noma wakhe umndeni oqinile? Yeka umsebenzi wakho noma ube nomsebenzi ophumelelayo? Lesi yisikhathi lapho ubeka isisekelo sesimilo somntanakho. Ngakho yiqinise usebenzisa isikhathi onaso.